Don't stay with someone who doesn't care

Finding someone who not only care but love and appreciate us is something worth having no doubt too many people seek just this very simple feeling but end up going about a viscous circle of dirty dishes. While some have it going really great others are struggling, crawling a host of the majority are lost in the battle and trapped within the "I wish" situation. Quickly, permit me to stress it that, It is to your own disadvantage if you know well enough someone doesn't care but you push forward and further to be with them, it is by great percentage your Fault and your loss. If he/she doesn't care now, what makes you think they will care later? If they don't show love now, what makes you think they will in 10yrs to come? If they constantly put you do and make you feel little or worse today, What makes you think they will change?

Love is not a game of gamble, some poker or dice. You've got to get it right with every certainty and sanity or reap the Consequences that it bears fruit to. "There is no MANAGING A RELATIONSHIP" you can't patch it up and expect it not to sink everytime. That ain't going to happen. What do you need? You need someone who is qualified to give you all the comfort, care, loving, alluring, time and their audience when you need one. When you meet them eventually, You will not need to try hard to win them. They will see nobody else in that room or place but you, Only you. That's how amazing it is. What do you need to do? You need to be completely you and no one else, No funny exhibition of Attitude or borrowed character and accent. You need to be 100 percent Natural as being someone else or trying to be What "You think" they need will hit back at you really hard. You can't play someone else's character for long, it's Completely exhausting. Let them like and want you for who you are and what you really are. Usually when you meet the right guy, 15minutes of conversation should put all the facts on the table who they probably are and jf whether or not you should listen to what they have to say. You don't need to go through the stress of thinking thoughts and certainly don't need to wake up late night going through options or regretting the decisions you made. If they don't care and don't show you they do, then you don't need that stress on you at the end of the day. Do yourself a favour and get out while you still can, Their is no Managing a relationship... ~Trippleff Please Kindly share

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DIRECTION IS FAR MUCH IMPORTANT THAN SPEED

A very good day to you my favourite readers, also to new readers. Today I will be discussing and throwing light to why direction in whatever your vocation is is far much important than speed.

Direction first knows your calling, growing and developing the basic skills and putting them into work judiciously not minding TIME but taking absolutely full advantage of you might and creativity hence focusing your energy to achieve a task perfectly. Direction knows what is needed and when it is need and exactly knowing where to go every moment.

Time on the other hand is the period it takes for a task or anything that is worth doing takes up, consumes while TRYING to bring something into play or existence. Time is of essence to whatever one chooses to do and the application of it should be such that even while it is expended, a reasonable volume of work is outputted which in any case can be certified credible and valid.

                Now too many people are moving too fast to nowhere because they lack the direction and mostly this can be attributed to them having no Focus or goals. Some fail and expend time unknowingly to them; doing the wrong things over time with the hope of achieving so much within the time. “When there is direction, within the shortest period of time one would have achieved so much than what will take a visionless man so much time to come up with.”  Of which is some cases they actually end up wasting the time and achieving very little or nothing.

An old wise man once told me (My Father) “son, anything that is worth doing is what doing well” am very sure like my father did tell, somehow or someway you may have heard the word which means that if you actually want to do something and make an incredible impact then you have to give it your very best as that will leave a lasting significance in the heart of many.

Some people have no speed but quite frankly with the right mindset and direction they become very much more productive than their peers. Now I say this is where the principle of practical knowledge, understanding, focusing encompasses the whole embodiment of delivering.

Some people along the way get confused and lost. Some get lost simply because they want to be like someone else, someone they are not. Some people want to feel among and be accepted nevertheless not minding how much time it will cost them to achieve nothing and play themselves over time. Some other people also are caught up in a cycle tangled like a web working and nothing to show for it. However, it must be clearly noted that direction is what gives birth to focus and when you are focused, you will summon all your energy into being completely creative because unlike the rest without direction, you have a focus, a target, a vision and will go against every odds to actualize that which you have started.

Applying this to life, not minding what others are doing, not minding how far they have gone also not minding how much they are making. We all have different gifts and grace. It might take longer to make that much or less, it might also mean that you will have to work more or less but the bottom line here is Know your goals and know how to achieve them also remember that you are not in a competition with anybody so whenever you find yourself wanting to be like or practically going by the same footsteps others are taking just to level up and become like them “remember your faces are different. The journey is different and your goals in life are also different.”  Don’t be a copy, be the original. Stop following people, No what you want and also know what you need to achieve your goals. It is better to move like a snail to somewhere than move too fast to know where for direction is far much more important than speed….

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START YOUR DAY WITH THIS TIPS

 Start your day by carefully going through these Tips



We are taught you must blame your father, your sisters, your brothers, the school, the teachers - but never blame yourself. It's never your fault. But it's always your fault, because if you wanted to change you're the one who has got to change.

If you want to succeed you should strike out on new paths, rather than travel the worn paths of accepted success.

Learning is the beginning of wealth. Learning is the beginning of health. Learning is the beginning of spirituality. Searching and learning is where the miracle process all begins.

Be gentle to all and stern with yourself.

Determine never to be idle. No person will have occasion to complain of the want of time who never loses any. It is wonderful how much may be done if we are always doing.

What you get by achieving your goals is not as important as what you become by achieving your goals.

Set your sights high, the higher the better. Expect the most wonderful things to happen, not in the future but right now. Realize that nothing is too good. Allow absolutely nothing to hamper you or hold you up in any way.     

TFF 

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INSPIRATION (love poem)

You ask me if I love you,
Then you suck the lips off my face
And chew on the delicacy of their maroon creases.
'Body shop' lipstick, no. 12;
The taste of compact slabs of cherry.
This cheap adolescent disguise has guided me through all
my realizations.

I left it on the edge of plastic vodka glasses and blood smeared mirrors,
On the foreskins of Greek men,
And finally, on all your cliched perfume soaked letters.
Now it is in your mouth, your throat, your stomach.
You have swallowed my teens and all those fermented mistakes.

The ones I danced into blind,
Fumbling for an urgent exit
In whitewashed jeans and tobacco coated pockets.
All the words that flew out and assaulted
Steve, Damien, Kieren, Gary, Ben
(and all the others my high tech brain has crashed out and deleted),
Have left open wounds in my voice box,
gauged by their barbed wire font.

But as you savor the many varied tastes of my existence,
I can feel my insides frantically stitching and nursing
my pubescent cuts and bruises. Healing in seconds.
Now I am your fetus and everything is warm.

You feed me with a mother's strength and make me reborn,
Without all these zits and misadventures.
My new born 'Halleaugh' scream, realized from sterilized lungs
will be pristine, no lipstick stains in sight.

The answer to your question is
"Yes, Yes, Yes! "
Yes, I love you.
YOUR PURPLE MECHANICAL PALMS,
THAT AT NIGHT SOFTEN LIKE CHOCOLATE IN THE SUNLIGHT
AND MELT INTO MY THIGHS.
YOUR HEAVY TORTURED EYES, YOUR LAUGHTER
AND THE WAY YOU INHALE YOUR MARLBORO.
Yes, Yes, Yes.

I swirl out of your anesthetic
With a bacon rind for a belly button
And that's my first word,
A singular syllable.

I can turn the lens until my eyes are in focus,
And you, my surgeon, become my mother.
"Your adolescence has been successfully removed.
The operation was beautiful, wonderful,
Just fine. "

My log in word is 'You'.
That is all I remember.
I am a blank canvas, a cut- price jotter pad, an overflowing biro.
Write all over me.

Scrawl your name in my razor sharp armpits,
In my louse- free hair, my eyelashes bulging with years of mascara.
Practice your joined up handwriting on
My Mound of Venus and the folds of my labia;
Magenta pink and bald.

I am your Frankenstein,
but I promise not to fail.
I will get top marks in my oral stage, my anal stage
And all the others I don't remember,
Because we hit the doodle stage in class.

With you, I will grow old and withered
And our tree roots will be dangerously entwined with time.
We will become soil once again and make love amongst the worms.
'Yes' will be always be my answer, my mantra.
You will always be my host, my vessel;
A place to store my happiness and tears.

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KEYS TO MY HEART

I had closed the door upon my heart
and wouldn't let anyone in
I had trusted and loved only to be hurt
but that would never happen again
I locked the door and
tossed the key as
hard and as far as I could
My heart was closed for good

Then you came into my life and
made me change my mind
just when I thought that
tiny key was impossible to find
that is when you held out your hand
and proved me wrong
inside your palm was the
Key to My Heart
You had it all along

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IMPORTANT STEPS TO A HAPPY RELATIONSHIP

I have come to realize that most people are not really happy in their relationships. There is an all important step towards happiness in your relationship and that step is what I call; self appreciation. The world we are living currently is filled with stressful activities and uncertainty of the economy! Remember that there is a strong link between financial security, healthy economy, stress, job challenge and relationship approach.

  It is a pity that the world we live gives most people very few opportunities to sincerely relate or connect with their lovers and this single factor is Seriously causing arguments and complains from the victim in the relationship. One thing I have come to discover recently is the rising rate of people complaining that their partner doesn’t appreciate their beauty. Well, women are those suffering more as a result of this ugly development. Many ladies have told me that their male partners don’t really tell them how good they are looking often. It is also important to point out that some men are also experiencing this in their relationships

Now, when you are down emotionally, it means you will not be happy even physically and you know what that means to your relationship-frustration, endless arguments, complains, fighting and even cheating! When you look at most of these people who complain about not receiving the deserve appreciation of their physical look from their partners, you will discover that they are always nagging. It is because they are frustrated and their relationships suffer for it

However in a relationship you just have to be you but anyone else that's how you get it right and even, if you don't have much, present yourself as such because in real sense whoever will like or love you will do so regardless your financial endowment  or status
   I was once a victim but since i found the truth and inner peace and accepting who you really are, Nothing else really matters but the affection the love understanding and tolerance...where both partners will look past their respective flaws and find just reasons to be happy at all time mostly.

WHAT IS SELF APPRECIATION?

To appreciate yourself means to adore your personality, to see the good qualities you have, to tell yourself that you’re looking beautiful, to believe in yourself, to discover yourself etc. You know how good we feel each time our partner looks at us and say: “you are looking good, beautiful, and exceptional”?  It makes us happy, but if your partner doesn’t say it always and you desire it often, you can feel dejected!
   I urge you to start seeing the beautiful aspect of yourself. Remember that you cannot love your partner and express love fully to him/her if you haven’t loved yourself first. You must always look into the mirror and appreciate whatever you see there. You should be feeling good about yourself. Don’t rely so much on your partner to tell you how beautiful you are, say that to yourself too. Remember, once you are happy with yourself, you can easily be happy with others including your partner.


TFF

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WORDS ARE NOT ENOUGH ( love poem )

The words "I miss you" can not display
The depths of how I care.

The words "I want you" do not betray
The extent of what I dare.

The words "I need you" can not convey
The extent of my prayer.

The words "I love you" do not portray
The heights of my err. ----Ron carnell

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