Virtues Of A Woman

When God created woman he was working later on the 6th day.

An angel came by and said: "Why spend so much time on that one?"

And the Lord answered:

"Have you seen all the specifications I have to meet to shape her? She must be washable, but not made of plastic, have more than 200 moving parts which all must be replaceable and she must function on all kinds of food, she must be able to embrace several kids at the same time, give a hug that can heal anything from a bruised knee to a broken heart and she must do all this with only two hands."

The angel was impressed. "Just two hands...impossible! And this is the standard model? Too much work for one day...wait until tomorrow and then complete her."

"I will not", said the Lord. "I am so close to completing this creation, which will be the favorite of my heart. She cures herself when sick and she can work 18 hours a day."

The angel came nearer and touched the woman. "But you have made her so soft, Lord."

"She is soft", said the Lord, "But I have also made her strong. You can't imagine what she can endure and overcome."

"Can she think?" the angel asked.

The Lord answered: "Not only can she think, she can reason and negotiate."

The angel touched the woman's cheek. "Lord, it seems this creation is leaking! You have put too many burdens on her."

"She is not leaking...it's a tear" the Lord corrected the angel.

"What's it for?" asked the angel.

And the Lord said, "Tears are her way of expressing grief, her doubts, her love, her loneliness, her suffering and her pride."

This made a big impression on the angel; "Lord, you are genius. You thought of everything. The woman is indeed marvelous!"

"Indeed she is! Woman has strengths that amaze man. She can handle trouble and carry heavy burdens. She holds happiness, love and opinions. She smiles when feeling like screaming. She sings when she feels like crying, cries when she is happy and laughs when she is afraid.

She fights for what she believes in. Stands up against injustice. She doesn't take "no" for an answer, when she can see a better solution. She gives herself so her family can thrive. She takes her friend to the doctor if she is afraid. Her love is unconditional.

She cries when her kids are victorious. She is happy when her friends do well. She is glad when she hears of a birth or a wedding. Her heart is broken when a next of kin or friend dies. But she finds the strength to get on with life. She knows that a kiss and a hug can heal a broken heart.

There is only one thing wrong with her…

SHE FORGETS WHAT SHE IS WORTH." 

 

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WE ARE NOT IN CONTROL OF DESTINY

Any minute, any second we could lose someone we know. We are not in control of our life's destiny.

How we live our life, while we are here in this world, is what counts. How we share, help and touch someone else's life is what counts. It's not all about you, it's not all about me but it's about a continuous circle of giving.

I have always said that nothing lasts forever and I mean NOTHING. I go through my own life without having expectations.

I have always been the type of person who has appreciated the simple things in life ... my friends... my family... and when I wake up each day, I think about what I can do for someone today.

I may not have much but what I can give comes from the heart. I have two shoulders for you to lean on, two ears that will listen and two arms to wrap around you in times of comfort.

People may come and go in our lives, but they leave their footprints within each of us.

Memories are what we continue to make through a lifetime and they become a part of us. Those memories will always be there for us to reflect upon. In a period of time we are allowed to connect to others who make our day somehow a little brighter.

People come into our lives for a season and a reason and even if it is for a short period of time, they give our life meaning. 

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YES I CAN

Figure it out for yourself, my friends.
You've got all that the greatest of men have had,
Two arms, two hands, two legs, two eyes,
And a brain to use if you would be wise.
With this equipment they all began,
So start for the top and say, "I Can."

Look them over, the wise and the great,
They take their food from a common plate,
And similar knives and forks they use,
With similar laces they tie their shoes.
The world consider them brave and smart,
But you've got all they had when they made their start.

You can triumph and come to skill,
You can be great if you only will.
You're well equipped for the fight you choose,
You have arms and legs and a brain to use.
And the man who has risen great deeds to do,
Began his life with no more than you.

You are the handicap you must face,
You are the one who must choose your place,
You must say where you want to go,
How much you will study the truth to know.
God has equipped you for life, but He
Lets you decide what you want to be.

Courage must come from the soul within,
The man must furnish the will to win.
So figure it out for yourself, my lad,
You were born with all the great have had,
With your equipment they all began.
Get hold of yourself, and say: "I Can."


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CONTROL ANGER AND CONQUER THE WORLD

We all know the saying, "One's enemy is one's own anger and one's calmness is the friend of oneself".

Anger is the root cause of 'n' number of negative consequences on earth. We all have pondered, at one time or another in an introspective way, about the damage it has caused us. There are many instances in 'puranas' (fables) and 'epics' where the devastating effects of anger are explained by a number of anecdotes.

But the question is whether we should be totally devoid of an important emotion called anger and be leading lives like sages?

I do not think the answer is a firm yes. This is where anger management comes into play. Every one should possess this element and be able to use it in a judicious and wise way. In other words, it is also known as "controlled aggression".

We see a lot of this kind of controlled emotion at work when we watch sports persons in action. Team and individual games like Tennis, Cricket, Basketball, Soccer and the likes will do ample demonstration of this. A lot of players, through their body language, show it to gain an upper hand or take control of the game under consideration into their control.

If the sports person exhibits the right amount of aggression, the game or the battle is half won. The other half can be won by the skill of the sport during the course of the game. We can learn a lot about mastering controlled aggression by watching and emulating our famous and popular sports persons.

Controlled aggression and anger also play an important role in a person's career and life.

During the course of a person's career, people who are at the supervisory, managerial and other above higher levels need to exercise this emotion called 'anger' in a professional and right manner.

Unless it is resorted to, enforcing discipline becomes a chaotic task. For getting the work done by the subordinates, it is highly recommended to make use of the virtue called 'positive aggression' or 'controlled anger'.

We can extend this to our daily lives as well.

If the parent is not strict at times, children will behave in a cranky way and do not grow as disciplined denizens down the line. Teachers have to exercise this emotion in a wise way to make the students gain knowledge in an effective manner.

All in all, if one is able to execute the emotion called anger in a controlled manner, it will augur well for the smooth conduct of several activities in one's life and career. 

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DREAM BIG

He lives in the physical world.
He does not know the faith world.
What he is seeing now makes him miserable.
He cannot look farther than his eyes can see.

Look with your spiritual eyes.
Look over the horizon.
The vision is clear.
Can you see it?

If you can see it, you can have it.
You have the blueprint.
Design it.
Each step brings you closer to your reality.

Come away from your mere eyesight.
Look yonder and beyond.
Closer, closer, closer still.
You are there now.
Aha, ahaa, satisfaction at last
Good morning and have a great week ♥ you all

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DO YOU HAVE SELF CONFIDENCE?

Self-confidence is a vital tool for success. It is a weapon to combat obstacles and challenges in our life. Lack of this, we fail miserably.

Human beings are bestowed with a great gift of god that is "self-confidence". It is not available in commercial market. Man can himself build up this confidence but compelling it can't enhance it. Self-confidence can be improved through greater ambition and always trying to excel in performance. When you fail, take it as a challenge and try to succeed in your next attempt.

Modern Life has paved the way to vigorous competition. So, "Self-confidence is the key to survive in this fierce competitive world". It is a strong driving force and plays a pivotal role to achieve our higher ambitions. Without dogged determination and self-confidence, your sheer affords are futile, and we lead a dull and miserable life.

Unambiguously, self-confidence is an energy booster. With a lack of confidence, even deft hands and highly skilled personnel will also miserably fail in their attempts. So, harness the power of self-confidence to reach higher level in the life map.

Obviously, whenever people fail in their endeavors, they invite stress and go into frustration. Stress destroys memory cells and thinking capacity. But people with high level of self-confidence will never feel stress even in utter failure. So, lever up your confidence level.

In frustration, you may lose your minimum common sense. Hence, it shows a negative impact on your spirit and enthusiasm. Life is after all full of ups and downs. So, you need self- confidence to face all types of mental pains and show your peerless performance in your domains.

Failures, misfits and faults are common in everyone's life. Try to be the same in all circumstances. Even in the worse situation, never give up your confidence because self-confidence is a highly motivating factor and produces ever-lasting inspiration.

Self-confidence is an inner felling of a person. It is a psychological process to enrich our confidence levels. We can infuse self-confidence by regular interaction with wise people and cultivating positive thinking. Nothing can be achieved without self-confidence.

It is true that there is a positive correlation between success and self-confidence. If you have more confidence, your success rate will increase. See, an infant baby tries to stand up and walk but fails. Even in many failures the baby doesn't lose confidence. Finally the baby knows how to stand and walk without parents support. It could be possible through self-confidence.

In this fierce competitive world, students have many academic challenges to survive so they need confidence to achieve their goals. Confidence is one's own capabilities, combined with sincere efforts, which help them to reach unthinkable heights.

A man with all core competencies but lack of confidence will fail in all his endeavors.

If you put all your strenuous efforts without self-confidence, you may not succeed. So, impact of confidence is much on your efforts and results. Self-confidence is a natural medicine, which cures your inferiority complex. Solve all your problems and crisis with self-confidence. So, be confident, it makes you efficient. 

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HOW TO FORGIVE

We create an insane amount of suffering in our
lives by holding onto grudges and resentment.
What’s interesting, is that 100% of the time,
our lack of forgiveness only makes things much
worse. Not only does it build up like a poison
inside of us and disconnects us from others,
but it also pretty much ensures that we will
get hurt again.
We carry a weight that we just can’t seem to
let go of, and it just gets heavier every day
because time heals nothing.
The good news is, you can let it all go. All you
need to do is forgive.
So let’s get right to it.
First of all, what is forgiveness?
Well, to put it simply, it just means to give
as before. To love as before. To care as before.
To give in a relationship the way you gave before
the perceived transgression took place.
It does NOT mean forget. It does not mean that
you’ll trust someone again. There are people in
your life that you shouldn’t trust for a reason.
If someone stole your money in the past, don’t go
handing them your checkbook.
But that doesn’t mean you can’t forgive them.
Secondly, why do we not forgive?
Now, this may seem obvious, but it’s actually really
helpful to identify why we we choose not to forgive,
and why we are so freaking stubborn.
So although it’s completely irrational, the real reason we
do NOT forgive is that we are seeking to punish ourselves
or other people.
That’s it. We are just trying to punish. And there is
NOTHING productive about this. No good comes from our
resentment.
For some reason we feel like by holding on to it, it
somehow teaches a lesson. This is utterly delusional.
We have this crazy idea that if we were to forgive them
and let it go, we would be sending them the message that
what they did was okay.
We hold on and on because we are afraid they won’t be
punished or learn their lesson if we let go.
Even if the other person has moved on, it’s like your
sinking hooks into them and saying, “Nu-uh! We are going
to stay stuck forever.”
And what’s funny is a lot of times, there are people you
are holding grudges against who have no idea that they hurt
you in any way, so your attempts to punish them are going
utterly unnoticed, while they move on and live their life!
“HOW DARE THEY?!”
Now we may be tempted to feel like it’s useful to hold
a grudge with the intention of protecting ourselves from
further pain and harm.
But we must understand that trust is a completely different
animal, and we can make far more accurate judgement calls
when we are no longer blinded by our resentment.
Okay, so we’ve talked a lot about why we don’t forgive.
So how do we actually forgive and quit playing this game
that just keeps up stuck?
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STEP NUMBER 1 – LET YOURSELF BE THE PROACTIVE VICTIM
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So, depending on how long you’ve been withholding your
forgiveness, you’ve already been playing the role of a
victim for quite a while.
And there are benefits to being a victim. You get to be
right about how you or someone else is wrong. You get to
receive pity. You get attention.
But if you let go and stop being a victim, the benefits
are far more rewarding. There’s a huge difference between
being a wimpy victim and a proactive victim.
And in order to let go, you need to give yourself one
more opportunity to be the ultimate victim.
Here’s how it works:
I’m sure you’re familiar with the concept of “muscle memory.”
Although muscle memory doesn’t technically exist and it is
an overly simplistic way of describing it, you get the concept:
We record experiences in our lives on a mental and cellular
level based on repetition, so we are able to easily recall
movements and make decisions based on past events.
This next part may sound weird, but just roll with me.
In addition to “muscle memory”, we have “emotional memory.”
All of the pain that you have experienced has been recorded as
well. The energy of that pain is stuck inside of you, until you
let it go. We’re able to recall the emotion of stuff that happened
to us, all the way back when we were just babies.
So in order to forgive, you must first let go of all of that
pain and resentment that you’ve let fester around inside of
you for however long.
There are about 257 billion ways to do this, but here’s a couple
of ideas that will get you moving in a productive direction:
Option Number 1: Talk to the person and express your feelings.
If you go this route, here are a few key things to consider:
- You CANNOT have an agenda. You cannot use this as yet another
opportunity to punish someone. You cannot be looking for them to
apologize or make amends. This is simply an opportunity for you
to express your feelings, and you can let them know up front that
they have no reason to take any of what you might say personally.
Just ask them to listen. Let them know you don’t necessarily want
a response from them, and you certainly don’t want their sympathy
or comfort. You just want them to know how you feel.
- Let them know you’ve been foolish and just have some things you’d
like to say. You don’t have to forgive them here, you just have to
express your feelings.
Option Number 2: Write a letter to the person and express your feelings.
In many cases, the person you need to forgive more than anyone else
is yourself. This is where a letter or a mirror might come in handy.
A letter may be a lot easier for you, or a lot more possible (as
tragically, sometimes it is the deceased that we need to forgive).
Let yourself be vulnerable and express everything there is to say.
Write about how frustrated and hurt you are. Write about all of the
ways that that person has wronged you. Write about how much they suck.
Hold nothing back. No one is judging you.
Option Number 3: Release the energy through catharsis.
This might seem really weird, but it’s extremely effective,
and it doesn’t necessarily involve anyone else.
This is when you let all of the pain and energy surface and you
physically release it. You can hit a pillow, use a bat to whack
something with, pound on a chair with open palms, or just scream
and shout.
If you let the emotion surface and allow yourself to release it,
it makes room for you to naturally heal and forgive.
Here’s one of the problems with all of these options:
Sometimes we’ve repressed our feelings for so long we have a
hard time feeling them.
A great way to get them to surface is to replay the memory
of past events. This might be hard, but I promise it’s worth
it. You are letting yourself feel the pain for the purposes
of healing, not for punishment or torture.
Use music to support you (perhaps there is music that brings
you back to that time).
Maybe there are locations that you could physically bring
yourself to that brings up the emotion.
Whatever you need to do, bring the emotion up, and release it.
Once you have released the energy and allowed yourself to be a
proactive victim, you’re ready for the next step.
If you have any reservations about how weird this all seems,
you may want to ask yourself if you value being appropriate
more than you value your own freedom.
You have a lifetime to be appropriate. Give yourself this one
opportunity to be crazy.
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STEP 2 – PROACTIVELY FORGIVE
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Often times after doing the first step, you already feel there
is no longer anything to forgive. Even so, this next step is
really important, as it truly solidifies the forgiving.
Remember, you are forgiving for YOU, and no one else (although
others will most likely greatly benefit from it as well).
You are reclaiming YOUR power.
Here’s a couple of ways you can proactively forgive:
1. Write a letter expressing your forgiveness.
Here’s how to start your letter (or letters):
“Dear so-and-so, I hereby reclaim my power. And I forgive you for:”
Then write about what you forgive them for. Make the list. Talk about
all of it.
And then, “I ask you that you forgive me for:”
Then write about what you ask forgiveness for. Because often times,
it comes full circle and it turns out we have a lot we are sorry about
too.
Write as many letters as you need. It can be to total strangers that
hurt you, yourself, or people who are near and dear to you. Let it all
be said. Let it all be written.
It’s up to you whether or not you actually deliver the letter to the
person. I highly recommend you do (as long as you’re safe), but
this exercise will do you good, either way.
You choose what to do with the letters in the end.
2. Speak to the person and forgive them.
This is very similar to the letter itself. It can be in person,
or on the phone. But actually speak with the person and forgive
them, using the same structure outlined above.
“I hereby reclaim my power and I forgive you for, and I ask you
to forgive me for.”
Let’s move onto the final step.
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STEP 3 – DOCUMENT YOUR LEARNING
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What have you learned from your experience?
What have you learned about you as a result of your grudges?
What have you learned about others?
What have you learned about forgiveness?
How does it feel?
Write about it. Additionally, you can share about it with
a trusted friend or family member.
This is just a great way to immortalize your experience of
liberation and to have evidence of the value of forgiveness,
lest you decide to resent again. This is something you can
always refer back to.
Plus, it creates great closure for the entire experience, and
ends the vicious cycle that you’ve put yourself through.
Something about stopping to put your thoughts in writing
instead of letting them forever spin around in your head
can be really freeing.
And that’s it! Let me know in the comments below what
you have learned, and if you’d like to be awesome beyond
words, go out and forgive and come back to share your
results. I’m excited to hear from you.
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That’s all I’ve got for you today, I hope you found
this beneficial. I wish you all the best in your quest
of forgiveness. It’s definitely one of the best decisions
you’ll ever make.

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WHY YOU NEED TO FORGIVE

We all have been in the familiar position that we were hurt by somebody. Perhaps it may even have been somone close to us. For most people the natural reaction is to hold on to this hurt for as long as possible. Some may even plot revenge.
So why is it that we have a problem forgiving? Here's why, because it is easier to hate than to forgive. Some people think to forgive is a sign of weakness, but let me tell you, it is not. To forgive takes courage and extra effort.
What is forgiveness? It is a gift from a generous heart. Forgiveness is not a reward. It is not something that you give to someone based on his good behavior. It is something that you give to a person irrespective of whether he has deserved it or not. Forgiveness is also not based on whether the person has asked for forgiveness.
Also know this. Forgiveness is not an event, which starts and concludes when you say the words, "I forgive you".
Forgiveness is an act and a process, which often takes time. The deeper your hurt the longer it usually takes to completely forgive. It is an act because it is not just the words you say but it is your actions which will show if you've really forgiven.
A fine example of someone who embodies true forgiveness is former South African president Nelson Mandela. Mandela was imprisoned by the former all-white South African government for 27 years. Upon his release Mandela surprised the whole world when he showed no bitterness towards his jailers. That is truly remarkable.
Why is it necessary to forgive? Forgiveness releases you from the burden of bitterness and hate. It takes enormous energy to hate and to keep that hate in place. Forgiveness brings freedom whereas revenge is neither sweet nor gratifying, its just a hollow feeling.
Hate puts unnecessary stress on your body. It is a well-known fact, proven by numerous studies, that bitterness and hate can actually make you sick. A great number of people in the world don't really belong in a hospital, because the root of their problem is not physical but is mental. The moment they forgive and let go of their hate they will start to get well.
There is another reason why you need to forgive. If you don't forgive you actually prevent blessings from flowing to you. The Bible says that before you pray for anything first forgive those who wronged you, and then your Father in heaven will forgive you your wrongs. So there you can see that blessings are closely connected to your forgiving others. I have personal experience of this.
I used to be very cynical about life and didn't forgive easily. At the time I also struggled in every area of my life. Things just didn't seem to work out for me. It is as if everything that could go wrong, always went wrong.
That was until somebody told me to take a look at my attitude. And when I forgave those who wronged me and changed my attitude, everything else changed. It didn't happen overnight. It took a while, but I could see and feel the difference.
Now you may ask how do you know when you've really forgiven someone? Here's the key. If after you've forgiven that person you still experience negative sting whenever you think of him or her, it means you still have work to do.
If however you don't have negative feelings towards that person it means you are free.

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LIVE YOUR DREAM

Can you imagine anyone being serious about that? Dreaming is a natural part of who we are. We explore our dreams and develop personal dreams. We even like to dream BIG!

Our dreams become part of who we are. We then adopt our dreams into how we see ourselves and want our lives to be. That type of dreaming we often refer to as visualization.

We know we're not going to stop dreaming, but we can change how we visualize. For the most part our dreams and visualizations focus on the end result. We see ourselves in love, married, driving a great car, on vacation, with tons of money, in a great career, famous, etc. Sounds good to me, how about you? Why not dream about all this and more?

Dreaming about the end result is just fantasizing and wishing. Wishing relies on some magical force to make our dreams turn into reality, and we become unhappy as we're not living our dreams.

I have never felt the power of wishes coming true. I have never actual met a Genie or have a taken a ride on a magic carpet. It doesn't mean that dreams can't come true, it just means that there is no magical force waiting to deliver your dreams to you.

So how do you make your dreams come true? That is a question we all often struggle with. Even though we struggle with the answer, the answer is not that obscure. We make our dreams come true with the action we take.

Dreaming about being in shape will not get you in shape. Dreaming about being rich will not get you rich. Dreaming about being famous will not get you famous. Dreaming about the end result will not make it happen.

If you want to get in shape you have to work out. If you want to make money, you have to be in action to earn money. If you want to be famous, you have to put yourself in a position to become famous. If you want the end results, you have to do the actions required to get there.

See the movie of your life in your visions. Imagine going to a movie and arriving at the very end, how interesting would that be? In order to understand why and how it ended you need to see the sequence of events that lead up to the end. In order to make your dreams come true you need to see the sequence of events that you must take to make the end result make sense.


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WE ALL ARE ONE

A mouse looked through the crack in the wall to see the farmer and his wife open a package.

"What food might this contain?" The mouse wondered.

He was devastated to discover it was a mousetrap.

Retreating to the farmyard, the mouse proclaimed this warning, "There is a mousetrap in the house! There is a mousetrap in the house!"

The chicken clucked and scratched, raised her head and said, "Mr. Mouse, I can tell this is a grave concern to you but it is of no consequence to me. I cannot be bothered by it."

The mouse turned to the pig and told him, "There is a mousetrap in the house! There is a mousetrap in the house!"

The pig sympathized but said, "I am so very sorry, Mr. Mouse, but there is nothing I can do about it but pray. Be assured you are in my prayers."

The mouse turned to the cow and said, "There is a mousetrap in the house! There is a mousetrap in the house!"

The cow said, "Wow, Mr. Mouse. I'm sorry for you, but it's no skin off my nose."

So, the mouse returned to the house, head down and dejected, to face the farmer's mousetrap... alone.

That very night a sound was heard throughout the house - the sound of a mousetrap catching its prey.

The farmer's wife rushed to see what was caught. In the darkness, she did not see it.

It was a venomous snake whose tail was caught in the trap.

The snake bit the farmer's wife. The farmer rushed her to the hospital. When she returned home she still had a fever.

Everyone knows you treat a fever with fresh chicken soup so the farmer took his hatchet to the farmyard for the soup's main ingredient.

But his wife's sickness continued.

Friends and neighbors came to sit with her around the clock. To feed them, the farmer butchered the pig.

But, alas, the farmer's wife did not get well...

She died.

So many people came for her funeral that the farmer had the cow slaughtered to provide enough meat for all of them for the funeral luncheon.

And the mouse looked upon it all from his crack in the wall with great sadness.

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YOU ARE STRONGER THAN YOU KNOW

Who says you cannot,

Tell him he is wrong.

Bigger are you, than opinions,

Much larger than you think. 

What is needed but time,

Till then in patience wait.

For want of success,

You dare.

For want of glory,

Striving, you must be,

With a heart that is set,

Mind that is fixed, 

Arms that are ready.

Then shall you see,

The rising of you, the inside 'you'.

High above the shadows,

Beyond views and opinions.

Everyone will then know, 

When the phoenix rises, 

Nothing stands in the way.

When the storms subside,

Opportunities come to play.

This is a law of life unsaid,

Are you willing to embrace?

Time is coming when,

You will rise and your problems, subdue.

Then will the sun shine, radiantly,

On your way to success and grandeur.

Imperative it is to move on - now,

For stagnation is the greatest disease.

Dynamic is the world you live in,

Thus, keep up the pace.

Leave your worries to the worrier,

For there are many - truly many.

Invest your 'you' in to edification,

For you are called to prove

That you are bigger than opinions.

You are commissioned to show,

That you are larger than your shadow.

Keep up the pace

And you shall prove so! 

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KINDNESS TO OTHERS AND LOVE

Today, can you say that you were nice to everyone you came in contact with, and if they were not nice to you, that you humbled yourself long enough to let it go and not form a resentment??

Can you tell yourself that your heart and soul were filled with positive thoughts and the negative one's just bounced off?

Can you remember if you exhibited an act of kindness towards another person through out the course of your day?

Did you give more of yourself to people who needed you without wanting anything in return?

Did you go home to your family today and tell them you love them more than anything and thank them for being in your life??

Instead of seeing the mistakes people made today, did you tell them it was ok and offer a solution to fix it?

Did you reach out and touch someone's heart today, and fill it with hope for their future?

Did you say hello to a perfect stranger today to brighten their day, or just look someone in the eye today and smile at them for no reason, other than to make them feel good??

Can you rest your head on your pillow tonight and say that you did the very best at everything you did today?

If not, when you wake in the morning, you will have that opportunity all over again.

Remember what life is all about...It is about kindness to others and the people we love.

Tomorrow, reach out your hand and your heart to someone in need and make that person's life, that much better.....

Make every tomorrow a better day than today!!! 


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NEVER LET GO

Throughout history, perseverance has
been the universal ingredient common to
all outstanding achievement. It is said that
nothing succeeds like success. But to be
victorious, winners must exercise some
level of doggedness; persevere in their earliest efforts when things look most
challenging. To be successful, you need to first be
focused, with little or no deviation from
the course you have set and goals you
have designed. It is then you can now talk
of perseverance. A decisive action with
never let go attitude is a quality of perseverance. Funny how people set success as a goal
without proper definition of what success
means to them. Without focus, they try
one thing today and another one
tomorrow and then another one believing
they are supposed to make it with one try. They are really only scattering their efforts
and resources that are suppose to yield
them something meaningful in one effort.
The reason is that they are deluded about
what they want. I have never seen someone with a focus
who has not achieved the goal, although it
might come from where and when least
expected. For instance: A student, whose main aim is
to graduate, will sail through after one or
two failures. While it sounds easy, it is
because everyone who gets into that
course of action attaches so much
importance (focus) to it; i.e. to become a graduate. Most of the time, those who scatter their
efforts and resources are people who
desire to be financially free and attain
fame. All you need is one course of action
you are passionate about, with a never let
go attitude, and in no time you will achieve your desired goal; be a tailor, an
artist, a teacher, a writer and nothing but
that. Do everything legitimate to be the best at
it and money and fame will naturally be
added to it.

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TIPS ON RELATIONSHIPS

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Love is what Binds us "ALL" together,
We live to share, care, appreciate
And above all Love
Just like the creator of the Universe
Show us LOVE and COMPASSION.


It doesn't Matter your Color
Your Nation, Your Attitude
Or your back-ground
We are one in divinity!

Please Where Ever You Are
What Ever you always Remember
You wouldn't Appreciate life so much
If you don't show enough people
Love, care, understanding and support

Regardless your Religion
I be seek you to please
PRAY for "Nigeria"
A lot has been happening
More is still happening
In ALL life's of Innocent, patriotic citizen
Is been furiously and carelessly Wasted.

Pray for "Love"
CoS when their is Love, peace will have
Its way!!

May God/Allah save us All from
Drastical Untimely Death
Good Morning my People :'(


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WHAT A DREAM IS MEANT FOR

Dreams are made of
Wishes from the heart,
Some are granted
Some are not.
Take time to dream
A dream or two,
Take time to make
Those dreams come true.
Special dreams for you
Or for me,
Hold them close
For someday they may be.
Without these dreams
Would we try,
To reach our goals,
To soar so high?
Dreams are made of
Wishes from the heart,
Some are granted
Some fall apart.
But keep on dreaming
Those dreams for you,
Because you never know
Which dreams just may come
true.


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YOU ARE UNIQUE

Think what a remarkable,
unduplicatable, and miraculous
thing it is to be you! Of all the
people who have come and gone
on the earth, since the beginning
of time, not ONE of them is like
YOU!
No one who has ever lived or is to
come has had your combination of
abilities, talents, friends,
acquaintances, burdens, sorrows
and opportunities.
No, one's hair grows exactly the
way yours does. No one's finger
prints are like yours. No one has
the same combination of secret
inside jokes and family
expressions that you know.
The few people who laugh at all
the same things you do, don't
sneeze the way you do. No one
prays about exactly the same
concerns as you do. No one is
loved by the same combination of
people that love you - NO ONE!
No one before, no one to come.
YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY
UNIQUE! Enjoy that uniqueness.
You do not have to pretend in
order to seem more like someone
else. You weren't meant to be like
someone else. You do not have to
lie to conceal the of you that are
not like what you see in anyone
else.
You were meant to be different.
Nowhere ever in all of history will
the same things be going in
anyone's mind, soul and spirit as
are going on in yours right now.
If you did not exist, there would
be a hole in creation, a gap in
history, something missing from
the plan for humankind.
Treasure your uniqueness. It is a
gift given only to you. Enjoy it and
share it!
No one can reach out to others in
the same way that you can. No
one can speak your words. No one
can convey your meanings. No
one can comfort with your kind of
comfort. No one can bring your
kind of understanding to another
person.
No one can be cheerful and
lighthearted and joyous in your
way. No one can smile your smile.
No one else can bring the whole
unique impact of you to another
human being.
Share your uniqueness. Let it be
free to flow out among your
family and friends and people you
meet in the rush and clutter of
living wherever you are. That gift
of yourself was given you to enjoy
and share. Give yourself away!
See it! Receive it! Let it tickle you!
Let it inform you and nudge you
and inspire you!
YOU ARE UNIQUE!

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CHERISH LIFE AND BE HAPPY

So often we try to create our
identity with what we have, with
our possessions and our position,
yet our identity is actually created
by our behavior, by what we do
and more importantly by how we
do what we do. What really
matters is not what you have got
or the position that you hold, but
who you are and how you behave.
We have become a society where
we tend to measure a persons
status by their possessions and
their position. We no longer
measure them by their
contribution to society. This has
created an enormous pressure to
constantly flaunt the trappings of
"success" the material things that
create the impression of status.
Yet the very drive to constantly
acquire the trappings of "success"
creates a problem. The problem of
spending money that you don't
have, to buy things that you don't
need, so that you can impress
people that you don't like.
This leads to constant insecurity,
firstly can I afford these things
and secondly, what if someone
gets something bigger, better,
faster, brighter. You sacrifice your
peace of mind for the illusion of
material comfort and power.
We have to learn to do more with
less. Realise that your personality
is more important than your
possessions. Realise that what you
do is more important than what
you've got. Realise that how you
do what you do is more important
than what you do.
Your actions have a greater
influence on your reputation than
the position you hold or the
possessions you accumulate. The
one thing that you take with you
where ever you go, is you. Make
sure that you are worth taking
along. Realise that all possessions
and positions are transient, here
today gone tomorrow. Think of all
the changes that have already
taken place in your life. The only
constant is "you".
So choose to "Be a 'Human Being'
instead of a 'Human Having'


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BE HUMAN BEING NOT HUMAN HAVING

So often we try to create our
identity with what we have, with
our possessions and our position,
yet our identity is actually created
by our behavior, by what we do
and more importantly by how we
do what we do. What really
matters is not what you have got
or the position that you hold, but
who you are and how you behave.
We have become a society where
we tend to measure a persons
status by their possessions and
their position. We no longer
measure them by their
contribution to society. This has
created an enormous pressure to
constantly flaunt the trappings of
"success" the material things that
create the impression of status.
Yet the very drive to constantly
acquire the trappings of "success"
creates a problem. The problem of
spending money that you don't
have, to buy things that you don't
need, so that you can impress
people that you don't like.
This leads to constant insecurity,
firstly can I afford these things
and secondly, what if someone
gets something bigger, better,
faster, brighter. You sacrifice your
peace of mind for the illusion of
material comfort and power.
We have to learn to do more with
less. Realise that your personality
is more important than your
possessions. Realise that what you
do is more important than what
you've got. Realise that how you
do what you do is more important
than what you do.
Your actions have a greater
influence on your reputation than
the position you hold or the
possessions you accumulate. The
one thing that you take with you
where ever you go, is you. Make
sure that you are worth taking
along. Realise that all possessions
and positions are transient, here
today gone tomorrow. Think of all
the changes that have already
taken place in your life. The only
constant is "you".
So choose to "Be a 'Human Being'
instead of a 'Human Having'


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THE TRUE COLOUR OF FRIENDSHIP

Once upon a time the colors of the
world started to quarrel. All
claimed that they were the best.
The most important. The most
useful. The favorite.
Green said:
"Clearly I am the most important.
I am the sign of life and of hope. I
was chosen for grass, trees and
leaves. Without me, all animals
would die. Look over the
countryside and you will see that
I am in the majority."
Blue interrupted:
"You only think about the earth,
but consider the sky and the sea.
It is the water that is the basis of
life and drawn up by the clouds
from the deep sea. The sky gives
space and peace and serenity.
Without my peace, you would all
be nothing."
Yellow chuckled:
"You are all so serious. I bring
laughter, gaiety, and warmth into
the world. The sun is yellow, the
moon is yellow, the stars are
yellow. Every time you look at a
sunflower, the whole world starts
to smile. Without me there would
be no fun."
Orange started next to blow her
trumpet:
"I am the color of health and
strength. I may be scarce, but I
am precious for I serve the needs
of human life. I carry the most
important vitamins. Think of
carrots, pumpkins, oranges,
mangoes, and papayas. I don't
hang around all the time, but
when I fill the sky at sunrise or
sunset, my beauty is so striking
that no one gives another thought
to any of you."
Red could stand it no longer he
shouted out:
"I am the ruler of all of you. I am
blood - life's blood! I am the color
of danger and of bravery. I am
willing to fight for a cause. I bring
fire into the blood. Without me,
the earth would be as empty as
the moon. I am the color of
passion and of love, the red rose,
the poinsettia and the poppy."
Purple rose up to his full height:
He was very tall and spoke with
great pomp: "I am the color of
royalty and power. Kings, chiefs,
and bishops have always chosen
me for I am the sign of authority
and wisdom. People do not
question me! They listen and
obey."
Finally Indigo spoke, much more
quietly than all the others, but
with just as much determination:
"Think of me. I am the color of
silence. You hardly notice me, but
without me you all become
superficial. I represent thought
and reflection, twilight and deep
water. You need me for balance
and contrast, for prayer and inner
peace."
And so the colors went on
boasting, each convinced of his or
her own superiority. Their
quarreling became louder and
louder. Suddenly there was a
startling flash of bright lightening
thunder rolled and boomed. Rain
started to pour down relentlessly.
The colors crouched down in fear,
drawing close to one another for
comfort.
In the midst of the clamor, rain
began to speak:
"You foolish colors, fighting
amongst yourselves, each trying
to dominate the rest. Don't you
know that you were each made
for a special purpose, unique and
different? Join hands with one
another and come to me."
Doing as they were told, the colors
united and joined hands.
The rain continued:
"From now on, when it rains,
each of you will stretch across the
sky in a great bow of color as a
reminder that you can all live in
peace. The Rainbow is a sign of
hope for tomorrow."
And so, whenever a good rain
washes the world, and a Rainbow
appears in the sky, let us
remember to appreciate one
another

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YOUR CREATIVITY NEEDS ACTION FOR SUCCESS TO HAPPEN

At first a balloon is flat. You
could have it in your pocket or
in the middle of a book and
nobody has any idea of what
you are keeping. Sometimes you
could hold it in your hands
without anybody noticing what
you have.
But the moment you blow air
into it steadily, it becomes
impossible for you to put it in
the middle of your book like you
did earlier! Once you start
blowing the balloon, you cannot
fold it in your hands as you did
before! Everybody around you
begins to notice the balloon.
They begin to pay attention to its
colors and its size.
This is how the life of a man is
supposed to be. When you have
an idea, it may first be in your
book or on a sheet of paper in
your hands and isn't seen by
anybody. But when you start to
blow creativity into your idea,
people begin see it. It also
becomes impossible for you, the
visionary, to hide the idea.
The idea attracts attention itself.
Just like all the balloon needs to
start receiving attention is
consistent air, all your idea
needs is consistent creativity
blown into it.
Air sustains the balloon as long
as there is no place for air to
escape. Your business also
thrives as long as creativity is
not allowed to escape.
The balloon traps air inside to be
able to exhibit its real size and
at the same time it takes
advantage of the air to move up.
The breeze does not often favor
the balloon but the balloon still
takes advantage of the breeze to
dance in the air. You and I know
so well that the balloon might be
fully blown but it does not move
if there is no breeze to carry it.
You do not have to start with
money. Start with what's on
your mind.
There are people who have ideas
and are waiting for money to
start. What amazes me is that
there are people who have
money and are waiting for ideas
so that they can invest their
money! If money really gets
things started, the people who
have money would not look for
ideas.
You may also be interested in
the fact that the balloon lasts
longer because of its flexibility.
When it hits anything, its
direction changes.
When you hit a hard rock, while
sailing through life, don't stay
put. Don't say it's the end of the
road. There's a long way to
travel beyond the rock.
When the balloon is pressed, it
bends and flips because of
pressure. Learn to endure. Use
pressure to bend and flip to the
next level.
The route a balloon or your life
takes isn't going to be straight.
Like an alphabet written on a
straight line, you have to go
zigzag before picking the letters
that form success. I know you
can be a success!
Finally like the Ballon
Fly so high with your ideas
And dance to the Admiration of the World
Its the beginning of a new
DAWN make it count!
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YOU ARE A BBING OF LIGHT TO THE WORLD

I am amazed at the number of
people, walking through life,
deadened to the purpose for
their living. They while away
their time emulating the way
others live, instead of living a
positive life of their own.
They live from a couch,
watching a TV set; they sit at
their computers seeking
satisfaction in information and
games; they live for the latest
Iphone, Ipad, Xbox, or other
electronic gadget. With the push
of a button, they expect the
abundant life.
They are beings, with a light of
special gifts, talents, and
experiences. I want to tell them
to wake up and share of
themselves with a darkened
world that needs their light.
Where is their ambition? What
is their purpose for living? We
were put here to bring light to
others. We need to have goals
and expectations and work
towards accomplishing our
aspirations.
What is our responsibility for
the privilege of living in this
world? As the sun lights our
days and the moon our nights,
we are being called on to light
up the lives of those around us.
Think about the power of light.
It makes sight possible. It allows
us to see things the way they
really are. It eliminates the
darkness. With the power of
your light, darkness retreats.
You have the capacity to bring
love and joy, care and
compassion, and inspiration and
motivation to others in this
world. It begins with your
thoughts and emotions and is
brought out through your
actions. What would it mean to
light the world around you with
great hope, desire, and
possibility? When you change
just one life, you start to change
the whole world.
Start with yourself. Be honest
and true. Be able to laugh at
yourself. Admit when you’re
wrong and apologize. Always
show respect for others. Bring
value to other’s lives. Be
grateful. The more you nurture
your own light, the better you
can illuminate the way for
others. A candle loses nothing by
lighting another candle. So, it is
with us.
When we give of ourselves, our
light is not diminished, but aids
others who are still in darkness.
A realm of light is needed to
overcome the darkness of this
world. God put you here for a
purpose. Learn what He has for
you to do and passionately shine
your light into the world.
Even now, there are countless
others in need of the guidance,
security, and inspiration of your
light. So, be a light in this world,
every day that you live. Live in
the light of eternity.

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