BE HUMAN BEING NOT HUMAN HAVING

So often we try to create our
identity with what we have, with
our possessions and our position,
yet our identity is actually created
by our behavior, by what we do
and more importantly by how we
do what we do. What really
matters is not what you have got
or the position that you hold, but
who you are and how you behave.
We have become a society where
we tend to measure a persons
status by their possessions and
their position. We no longer
measure them by their
contribution to society. This has
created an enormous pressure to
constantly flaunt the trappings of
"success" the material things that
create the impression of status.
Yet the very drive to constantly
acquire the trappings of "success"
creates a problem. The problem of
spending money that you don't
have, to buy things that you don't
need, so that you can impress
people that you don't like.
This leads to constant insecurity,
firstly can I afford these things
and secondly, what if someone
gets something bigger, better,
faster, brighter. You sacrifice your
peace of mind for the illusion of
material comfort and power.
We have to learn to do more with
less. Realise that your personality
is more important than your
possessions. Realise that what you
do is more important than what
you've got. Realise that how you
do what you do is more important
than what you do.
Your actions have a greater
influence on your reputation than
the position you hold or the
possessions you accumulate. The
one thing that you take with you
where ever you go, is you. Make
sure that you are worth taking
along. Realise that all possessions
and positions are transient, here
today gone tomorrow. Think of all
the changes that have already
taken place in your life. The only
constant is "you".
So choose to "Be a 'Human Being'
instead of a 'Human Having'


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THE TRUE COLOUR OF FRIENDSHIP

Once upon a time the colors of the
world started to quarrel. All
claimed that they were the best.
The most important. The most
useful. The favorite.
Green said:
"Clearly I am the most important.
I am the sign of life and of hope. I
was chosen for grass, trees and
leaves. Without me, all animals
would die. Look over the
countryside and you will see that
I am in the majority."
Blue interrupted:
"You only think about the earth,
but consider the sky and the sea.
It is the water that is the basis of
life and drawn up by the clouds
from the deep sea. The sky gives
space and peace and serenity.
Without my peace, you would all
be nothing."
Yellow chuckled:
"You are all so serious. I bring
laughter, gaiety, and warmth into
the world. The sun is yellow, the
moon is yellow, the stars are
yellow. Every time you look at a
sunflower, the whole world starts
to smile. Without me there would
be no fun."
Orange started next to blow her
trumpet:
"I am the color of health and
strength. I may be scarce, but I
am precious for I serve the needs
of human life. I carry the most
important vitamins. Think of
carrots, pumpkins, oranges,
mangoes, and papayas. I don't
hang around all the time, but
when I fill the sky at sunrise or
sunset, my beauty is so striking
that no one gives another thought
to any of you."
Red could stand it no longer he
shouted out:
"I am the ruler of all of you. I am
blood - life's blood! I am the color
of danger and of bravery. I am
willing to fight for a cause. I bring
fire into the blood. Without me,
the earth would be as empty as
the moon. I am the color of
passion and of love, the red rose,
the poinsettia and the poppy."
Purple rose up to his full height:
He was very tall and spoke with
great pomp: "I am the color of
royalty and power. Kings, chiefs,
and bishops have always chosen
me for I am the sign of authority
and wisdom. People do not
question me! They listen and
obey."
Finally Indigo spoke, much more
quietly than all the others, but
with just as much determination:
"Think of me. I am the color of
silence. You hardly notice me, but
without me you all become
superficial. I represent thought
and reflection, twilight and deep
water. You need me for balance
and contrast, for prayer and inner
peace."
And so the colors went on
boasting, each convinced of his or
her own superiority. Their
quarreling became louder and
louder. Suddenly there was a
startling flash of bright lightening
thunder rolled and boomed. Rain
started to pour down relentlessly.
The colors crouched down in fear,
drawing close to one another for
comfort.
In the midst of the clamor, rain
began to speak:
"You foolish colors, fighting
amongst yourselves, each trying
to dominate the rest. Don't you
know that you were each made
for a special purpose, unique and
different? Join hands with one
another and come to me."
Doing as they were told, the colors
united and joined hands.
The rain continued:
"From now on, when it rains,
each of you will stretch across the
sky in a great bow of color as a
reminder that you can all live in
peace. The Rainbow is a sign of
hope for tomorrow."
And so, whenever a good rain
washes the world, and a Rainbow
appears in the sky, let us
remember to appreciate one
another

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YOUR CREATIVITY NEEDS ACTION FOR SUCCESS TO HAPPEN

At first a balloon is flat. You
could have it in your pocket or
in the middle of a book and
nobody has any idea of what
you are keeping. Sometimes you
could hold it in your hands
without anybody noticing what
you have.
But the moment you blow air
into it steadily, it becomes
impossible for you to put it in
the middle of your book like you
did earlier! Once you start
blowing the balloon, you cannot
fold it in your hands as you did
before! Everybody around you
begins to notice the balloon.
They begin to pay attention to its
colors and its size.
This is how the life of a man is
supposed to be. When you have
an idea, it may first be in your
book or on a sheet of paper in
your hands and isn't seen by
anybody. But when you start to
blow creativity into your idea,
people begin see it. It also
becomes impossible for you, the
visionary, to hide the idea.
The idea attracts attention itself.
Just like all the balloon needs to
start receiving attention is
consistent air, all your idea
needs is consistent creativity
blown into it.
Air sustains the balloon as long
as there is no place for air to
escape. Your business also
thrives as long as creativity is
not allowed to escape.
The balloon traps air inside to be
able to exhibit its real size and
at the same time it takes
advantage of the air to move up.
The breeze does not often favor
the balloon but the balloon still
takes advantage of the breeze to
dance in the air. You and I know
so well that the balloon might be
fully blown but it does not move
if there is no breeze to carry it.
You do not have to start with
money. Start with what's on
your mind.
There are people who have ideas
and are waiting for money to
start. What amazes me is that
there are people who have
money and are waiting for ideas
so that they can invest their
money! If money really gets
things started, the people who
have money would not look for
ideas.
You may also be interested in
the fact that the balloon lasts
longer because of its flexibility.
When it hits anything, its
direction changes.
When you hit a hard rock, while
sailing through life, don't stay
put. Don't say it's the end of the
road. There's a long way to
travel beyond the rock.
When the balloon is pressed, it
bends and flips because of
pressure. Learn to endure. Use
pressure to bend and flip to the
next level.
The route a balloon or your life
takes isn't going to be straight.
Like an alphabet written on a
straight line, you have to go
zigzag before picking the letters
that form success. I know you
can be a success!
Finally like the Ballon
Fly so high with your ideas
And dance to the Admiration of the World
Its the beginning of a new
DAWN make it count!
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YOU ARE A BBING OF LIGHT TO THE WORLD

I am amazed at the number of
people, walking through life,
deadened to the purpose for
their living. They while away
their time emulating the way
others live, instead of living a
positive life of their own.
They live from a couch,
watching a TV set; they sit at
their computers seeking
satisfaction in information and
games; they live for the latest
Iphone, Ipad, Xbox, or other
electronic gadget. With the push
of a button, they expect the
abundant life.
They are beings, with a light of
special gifts, talents, and
experiences. I want to tell them
to wake up and share of
themselves with a darkened
world that needs their light.
Where is their ambition? What
is their purpose for living? We
were put here to bring light to
others. We need to have goals
and expectations and work
towards accomplishing our
aspirations.
What is our responsibility for
the privilege of living in this
world? As the sun lights our
days and the moon our nights,
we are being called on to light
up the lives of those around us.
Think about the power of light.
It makes sight possible. It allows
us to see things the way they
really are. It eliminates the
darkness. With the power of
your light, darkness retreats.
You have the capacity to bring
love and joy, care and
compassion, and inspiration and
motivation to others in this
world. It begins with your
thoughts and emotions and is
brought out through your
actions. What would it mean to
light the world around you with
great hope, desire, and
possibility? When you change
just one life, you start to change
the whole world.
Start with yourself. Be honest
and true. Be able to laugh at
yourself. Admit when you’re
wrong and apologize. Always
show respect for others. Bring
value to other’s lives. Be
grateful. The more you nurture
your own light, the better you
can illuminate the way for
others. A candle loses nothing by
lighting another candle. So, it is
with us.
When we give of ourselves, our
light is not diminished, but aids
others who are still in darkness.
A realm of light is needed to
overcome the darkness of this
world. God put you here for a
purpose. Learn what He has for
you to do and passionately shine
your light into the world.
Even now, there are countless
others in need of the guidance,
security, and inspiration of your
light. So, be a light in this world,
every day that you live. Live in
the light of eternity.

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Do You Make Good Choices For Your Life?

Choices

For all of us who have not been afflicted by some ill fortune of disease or accident, our choices usually determine our successes in life. Each new day presents added challenges, opportunities, and possibilities. It is up to us what selections we choose. It is up to us how intelligently we make our choices. I might also add, a decision not to act is as much of a choice as a deliberate decision to act.

We make choices constantly.
They are our choices and we must own them.

We choose our actions or our in actions, our beliefs and our non-beliefs, just as we choose the clothes we wear or the books we read. In the compilation of life's choices, there is an abundance of experiences to draw meaning from. Through time, our actions and beliefs move us in the direction we choose to go. Hopefully, growth occurs from consistently making the right choices and learning from the wrong choices.

The process of learning to make good decisions is the heart of growth.

As we grow, life gives us new and exciting challenges to choose. If we fail, life will continue to give us more opportunities to achieve or fail. So, ask yourself the right questions as you ponder your choices and you will choose the correct answers. As you go through life, you'll find that your choices have a definitive impact upon you, so you will need to make them carefully.

Your very being is determined by your choices.

Ask for God's guidance and care along the way. Have the faith to trust Him with your choices. Seek His wisdom and have courage to persevere when the pathway is hard. But, always remember, only you have the freedom and the responsibility to determine your station in life

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WHAT ARE YOU AFRAID OF (MOTIVATION)

When you get to realise where you are coming from, you will understand the need to be serious and get to your dstination on time.....life isnt about who got there first but how well you learned through difficulties and grief..

life will lways give you reasons and lot of proof why you should quit but are you strong to what you believe in?
do you really want to be accomplished and fulfilled in life?
The passion for ehat you desire is your driving force which will propel you even when you feel down

life will give you opporunity to back out and down.. you need to be inspired, motivated and up right in your dealings...

Dont be scared to fight for what you desire, you future is what you make of it today..
do you wish for it to be shattered?
Hurry get to work and aquire all the knowledge you will need...



NOTHING GOOD HAVE EVER COME SO EASY???
 so get up and work remember to pray too always..


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GET OVER YOUR PAST

Its obvious one way you can keep yourself from mkving forward in life is by clinging on to your past,
  You past is your past and should not interfare with your future...if you finding it difficult letting go,occupy your thoughts with besutiful things, book friends,go out often watch movies, in time old things will pass away

IF YOU DWELL SO MUCH IN YOUR PAST! THE FUTURE WILL BE BLURRED,GET OVER IT AND RACE TO THE FINISH WHAT YOU DESERVE..

You are destined foe greatness and your success is limitless. Give nobody any room to make you feel sad

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