HOW TO HANDLE FAILURES

Success is consequence of positive attitude, Perseverance and patience, but in the journey of life, we encounter many failures, which depress us and changes course of life. Each such event is result of deficient reaction of different inputs with our system resulting into undesired results.

Failures are started being faced by us from the childhood itself, when we are not able to secure marks commensuration with the efforts made and our parents scold us. From this failure onwards, series of failures are faced. Do you count some of them. The effect of failure is felt more, when we are more attached with the results.

NOTE

As such, the word "failure" doesn't deserve any place in the dictionary because this word does not exist at all. Consequence of any action result into some output in terms of outcome. Only results are produced .It is outcome only nothing as a failure, being not successful is also an outcome which need to be treated as same as successful outcome. The term “Failure” have adverse impact on the psychological frame of mind. Any outcome makes us enriched by addition in experience, which could be utilized in our future actions. So, let the Failure be renamed as “No Success”.

Now, feel the difference
• When you think of Failure
• When you think of "No Success".

In first case, reaction is visualizing yourself as a broken person –thinking that all is lost , nothing there in life to carry forward , whereas in the second case the reaction would be that success could not be achieved but some thing might have been gone wrong and you don’t feel as a broken person .Failure is the pessimistic emotion whereas “No Success” is optimistic emotion

Causes of "No Success" situation: Success is consequence of clear goals, right strategy blended with proper planning. Converse to this leads to "No Success" situation, one of them can be attributed to this result /outcome.

• Most of the time unclear goals are responsible for it. Introspect one of your "No success" cases and analyze clarity part of it . Goal need to be clear to your head and heart both.

• Wrong Strategy

• Untimely actions: Actions are required to be synchronized with the requirement .It is basically upto individual to use the specific action in getting the goal. When, which weapon is required to be used, it's an art.

Most of the time "No Success" situation is being faced by most of us, but still we have to survive in this life. Following re some of the techniques to handle such situation and becoming happy.

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